Seeking God... meaning... truth... friendship... love? Of course. Aren't we all? Aren't you? But many of us are too busy making a living to have a life. Not into the bar scene (nothing against social drinking, mind you) but I would prefer to meet a lady and then go have a drink rather than meet a lady at a bar. Does that make sense to you too? And have you too found that we are slaves to our libidos? It seems that "chemistry" rules when it comes to dating .... sometimes even when it comes to our choices for conversation. But I acknowledge that chemistry is important... for me too. The "Laws of Attraction" are just that, I guess....laws. See my profile and determine if we are a good “fit”. You may want to know in the beginning that I am not tall, not fat, not rich. I consider myself to be literate and intelligent, although my conservative friends often wonder how I could possibly be so liberal. I am not a hater, actually even drawn to multi-cultural relationships/friendships. I welcome the diversity that our community offers. My religious views are Christian-based although I haven't been a regular "practitioner" --- but recently looking to meet a Christian woman who may help to guide me toward our God. Or maybe we could help each other find the way.
I have learned people can get to know each other through cyber communications before arranging to meet socially. A few years ago I would have thought that this was inconceivable but have now had a change of heart after having developed on-line friendships, one in California and one in China. Honest and safe ….but lacks intimacy. Not looking for any more long-distance friendships. Like to find someone with like interests who wants to take the time to know me, lets me get to know her and that is near …. and wants to BE close in body and spirit.
I appreciate that you have read this far and will only add a few interests that you may share: dinners out....and dinners at home. Movies out ....and movies at home (popcorn mandatory either way!). Golf (not very good but enjoy the day in the sun). Tennis (as soon as I repair my Achilles injury!) Biking will soon become a favorite activity. Travel (definitely, when finances allow). Fishing. Camping (although the last day and night should be spent at a resort hotel to pamper after roughing it in "the wild"!) Live music (Classic Rock, Blues, R & B, learning to appreciate some Christian music. Some Classical. Even appreciating some eclectic, Asian and even Middle Eastern music.
Food? OK , I'll have some: Italian, Asian, what else do you have? I am cuisine-curious and will experience your favorites too. I haven't mentioned family but they are an important part of my life. We celebrate the religious holidays and the anniversary of the major events in our lives. You are welcome to share in my celebrations. Passion ---- it's what I find missing in life lately--- and it is NOT overrated.
Sorry that I've kind of monopolized the "conversation". What are your thoughts?

Waterman

Fit

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Bruin

Blank

Gescheiden

Ja - Bij Mij Thuis

Niet Zeker

Glimlach

Bruin

Ja

MBO

Voltijd

Militair

Realtor

Met kind(eren)

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Cool

Grappig, Flirterig, Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam, Gereserveerd, Verlegen

Kamperen, Nachtclubs / Bars, Koken, Eten, Fitness, Gezin, Vissen / Jagen, Internet, Gokken, Spellen, Tuinieren, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Fotografie, Kaarten spelen, Lezen, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Theater, Reizen, Vrijwilligerswerk

One that was comfortable, like a "good fit", despite the anticipation of new possibilities.

Vriendelijk, Cool

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Op Feestdagen

To reestablish after my recent divorce.

Slim, Vriendelijk

Ik hou niet van tv

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama, Animatie, Thriller

Blues, Gospel, Pop, Rock, Soul

Erotica, Fictie, Gezondheid, Humor, Mysterie, Filosofie, Science Fiction, Ik ben een schrijver

Almost any activity or even inactivity could be fun if shared with the right person.

Empathie, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Intelligentie, Gevoeligheid, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

I look for an intelligent, genuine, expressive, honest, interesting and interested petite woman ( ---- large women are just not a good "fit" for me). I hope to find a good woman who is willing to take the time needed to really KNOW me and allow me to know HER in order to build a lasting relationship. As shallow as it may sound (although I would hope it comes across as "honesty" instead....) a physical chemistry is important.

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid