Catching my interest is easy...keeping it is another story. I am as fun as I am practical and my boys (ages 13 and 11) are my priority, but that is only a portion of who I am. I love to go out dancing with my friends, going downtown, or hanging out as much as ordering in pizza and watching a movie or playing miniature golf or wii with the kids (guitar hero is kind of addicting and I'm actualy pretty good at it! lol).

This is my philosopy on relationships: "You are with someone because you want to be, not because you have to be and when that no longer holds true, it's time to end it". Relationships are as much about your own idividuality and independence as they are about being a couple. I would love to meet someone who is intelligent, who can make me laugh, is family oriented, financially stable (I am a division controller for a company in GR so I do alright lol), independant (but not too much so...it's nice to know you are needed), affectionate, and knows what they want out of life and isn't afraid to go after it.

My expectations are simple - I would never expect anything out of you that I wouldn't expect out of myself but keep in the back of your mind that I have high expectations of myself. I want someone who will compliment and support me and my goals - just as I would theirs, who will make as much time for us as they would for family (or their job - I work a lot, but my loved ones will always come first) and who is loyal, honest, affectionate, and fun.

I love my kids, but a stay at home mom I am not. I love my career and the independance it has given me and would not be willing to give that up for anyone, but that doesn't mean that I don't have time for other people or things in my life. Balance is crucial and I work as hard as I play, but I would love to have someone to share my time, and most importantly, my life with. If you would like to know more, give me a shout. If anything, maybe we'll make a new friend...and if we're lucky...more.

Gemini

Average

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - At Home

Not Sure

Smile

Strategically Placed Tattoo

Brown

Cat, Dog

No

College Degree

Full-time

Finance / Trading

Division Controller

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Friendly

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Playing Cards

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

I like to spend the first date getting to know the person that I'm with so going for coffee at a local cafe or taking a walk.

to go parasailing, or to travel to Europe (I've been to Mexico so it's time to go to a new destination :)

Friendly, Goofy

Other

On Holidays

Middle Of The Road

Well, my career goal used to be to work my way up the corporate ladder and become a controller, but I accomplished that this year so my next one is to spend a month in Europe and explore the culture and all of the art museums. I would like to bring my children with me so they can appreciate all that life has to offer and know that there is so much more out there in the world than just our small town!

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

News, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows

Comedy

Country, Rock, Pop

Health, Home & Garden, Mystery

I love to try new things, whether it be a restaurant, checking out a new band, a local festival, concert...I'm always up for a little adventure - even if that's just a hike on a trail somewhere I have never been before.

Intelligence, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

The more that I've learned about myself, the more I realize that I want to be with someone who is understanding, patient, can make me laugh, is spontaneous (as much as you can be with kids), likes to stay at home as much as go out, is social, can keep me intrigued with their intelligence and life experiences, someone who MAKES time, even when there is none, and is focused on their family as much as their career, not prioritizing one over the other.

Date, Committed